1) Our
shared belief that bisexual men especially bisexual and bi-curious
married men are better off hooking-up with other bi guys or gay
men and bisexual couples who understand and accept bisexuality in
men; that while we are open to and even encourage such healthy sexual
connections and such special friendships, we likewise advocate safe-sex
and seek to promote lasting happy marriages and loving, lifelong,
mutually beneficial family relationships;
2) That bi men need to be private and discreet - and generally
prefer this - yet do need a place, a forum - to chat, network, ask
questions, to seek and offer guidance from and to others. That while
we prefer to be private and discreet
bi men often need to work at accepting their own uniqueness as distinct
sexual beings and to learn and accept that NO ONE has the right
to decide or tell us our own unique sexual orientation That we must
learn to distinguish when revealing our sexual orientation as bisexuals
to others is appropriate and is in fact an act of love with special
regard to spouses, lovers, family and colleagues; that our decision
if and when to tell others about our bisexual orientation is a very
personal choice that should be well-considered and pondered due
to the wide variety of reactions and consequences that such disclosure(s)
may incur; and
3) Provide a safe, private and discreet social and support
organization worldwide and a forum with a bisexual male focus -
to joke and to laugh; to view porn; discuss issues and subjects
of mutual interest and concern; get hot tips, chat, learn about
news and events of interest to our bi men - thus NETWORK as bi men
with other bi men - PLUS our bi-curious & gay male friends and
bisexual couples; and host our fun and lively Annual Bi Men Getaway
Weekend and Bi Men Conference each October - at this time held annually
in Palm Springs, CA USA - go to www.bimen.org/events.htm
- for details..
NOTE:
Donations to the Bi MEN NETWORK are now tax-deductible due to our
association with Equality Source. Please contact us for more information.