1)
Our shared belief that bisexual men especially bisexual and bi-curious married
men are better off hooking-up with other bi guys or gay men and bisexual couples
who understand and accept bisexuality in men; that while we are open to and even
encourage such healthy sexual connections and such special friendships, we likewise
advocate safe-sex and seek to promote lasting happy marriages and loving, lifelong,
mutually beneficial family relationships;
2) That bi men need
to be private and discreet - and generally prefer this - yet do need a place,
a forum - to chat, network, ask questions, to seek and offer guidance from and
to others. That while we prefer to be private and discreet
bi men often
need to work at accepting their own uniqueness as distinct sexual beings and to
learn and accept that NO ONE has the right to decide or tell us our own unique
sexual orientation That we must learn to distinguish when revealing our sexual
orientation as bisexuals to others is appropriate and is in fact an act of love
with special regard to spouses, lovers, family and colleagues; that our decision
if and when to tell others about our bisexual orientation is a very personal choice
that should be well-considered and pondered due to the wide variety of reactions
and consequences that such disclosure(s) may incur; and
3) Provide
a safe, private and discreet social and support organization worldwide and a forum
with a bisexual male focus - to joke and to laugh; to view porn; discuss issues
and subjects of mutual interest and concern; get hot tips, chat, learn about news
and events of interest to our bi men - thus NETWORK as bi men with other bi men
- PLUS our bi-curious & gay male friends and bisexual couples; and host our
fun and lively Annual Bi Men Getaway Weekend and Bi Men Conference each October
- at this time held annually in Palm Springs, CA USA - go to www.bimen.org/events.htm
- for details..
NOTE:
Donations to the Bi MEN NETWORK are now tax-deductible due to our association
with Equality Source. Please contact us for more information.